On special occasions our son, Brad, and his family often give us framed family photos as gifts. Last month, we received an empty frame with the word “Memories” written in large letters under where the picture will be. Somehow, in the midst of our chaotic household, that frame was placed on top of our living room bookshelf and forgotten. Today, as I think about Father’s Day, that photo frame stares down at me.
We all have memories of Dad. Some good, some not so good, some missing totally. I believe that God has organized the world so that we can be in families, with two parents, one of whom fills the role of Dad. Over the last fifty years, Dad’s role has grown from being the primary wage earner and disciplinarian to that of team member sharing most tasks of child rearing and household chores, as well as wage earning.
Traditionally, children look to their father figure as a role model for much of life. It’s wonderful to hear the stories as teens and adult children browse through a photo album. Memories of Dad taking them fishing, skiing… Memories of Dad taking charge at home when Mom was sick or away. Stories of Dad building play houses with them, beating them at crokinole, helping with the Christmas pageant at church warm our hearts.
Dad’s role is critical in a child’s life. This year for Father’s Day, take the time to share your loving memories of Dad and those who have filled the role of Dad for you. Give thanks to God for his life and love. Remember a traditional name for God is Father. Christians have known since the beginning of time that Father is a valuable member of the family unit. Maybe this year, we will fill our memory frame with a group picture of the Dads in our household, For sure we will take lots of pictures and we will not forget to share our family stories of Dad and give God thanks.
Today’s Faith by Rev. Janet Stobie
